In - n - Out

I was reading an article written by a guy who does some writing for a magazine called RELEVANT and I had somethings jump out that I wanted to share. The one that really jumped out at me was the statement I bolded at the start of the 3^rd italicized paragraph. I’ll share a few thoughts at the conclusion of the article.

You know its often that we go about our day with our mouths spouting about wrecklessly whatever spills out. It can be positive and encouraging, negative, rude, spontaneous, gossip or perhaps truth but words carry great power and influence. Everyone remembers sticks and stone may break my bones but words will never hurt me, right? Not sure I ever bought that one. It seems its more of a coping mechanisim than anything. Words still carry great power to change a moment, a day or perhaps a life. Consider the words “Guilty” or “I Do”. Even a coaches half-time speech, just words, can totally change a game and its outcome. Life changing in some cases and powerful direction altering ones at that words can carry great weight. Not only do they sometimes carry a “hammer” they also can be reflective.

And once they are expressed, words not only create—they also reveal. Words are windows for us to see deeper into the heart of the one who is speaking. To quote Matthew’s Gospel: “Out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks” (Matthew 12:34) In Jesus’ case, The Word made flesh gave us a better picture of who God is. We were finally able to plainly see the heart of God in the reality of creation and salvation. Through Jesus we are able to see the unifying theme that God is speaking and establishing the reality of life. The Word created life and sustains life. The Word provides salvation (which is even more life). The Word reveals that within God’s heart is life, life and more life. So, Jesus isn’t kidding when He tells His disciples, “The words I have spoken to you—they are full of the spirit and life” (John 6:63).

But where does that leave us? Since we’ve been created in God’s image with this strange ability to affect the world we live in with what we say, what do our own words reveal about who we are? What do the realities we’re creating disclose about our hearts and our character?

If we want to begin creating realities that bring truth to the world, we’d do well to begin filling ourselves with “whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable” (Philippians 4:8). I’m not suggesting this means creating a legalistic set of parameters that ban rated-R movies or controversial music. But we should be aware of how things affect us. We must be cognizant of our words and the realities they create. Is what we say creating life or death for those who hear? After a quick personal assessment, we may need to make a few changes. If we’re going to speak words that create life for those who hear us, we must begin by surrounding ourselves with things that create life within ourselves.

To help you do that, here are a few questions you may want to ask yourself:

Is there anything inherently good or bad about it?
A great way fill your heart with goodness is by running toward what is good and away from what is bad. And while it’s true that the idea of “good” and “bad” may be a bit subjective, it’s an appropriate place to begin because there are some things that automatically scream good or bad. Not everything is a gray area. For instance: Scripture = Good. Porn Site = Bad. See? Not so hard!

How do I feel after experiencing it?
This particular question is a little tricky because our emotions are so fickle. But there is definitely value in assessing how we feel about what we do and whom we meet. I know from personal experience that I can’t watch the news during election years because political commentary makes me want to punch someone in the head. In the same way, if the movies you watch, music you listen to, books you read or people you surround yourself with make you feel angst-ridden or fearful, you may want to consider spending yourself somewhere else.

Am I gaining more clarity or more confusion?
It’s good to have your worldview shaken up every once in a while. But a good dose of truth should begin to peel away the layers of false reality, not add more. If the things you do and people you interact with are making you less and less confident of what you think and believe, look for people and experiences to that help you understand who you are (and whose you are).

Am I changing because of what I do and who I know?
Stagnation is one of the worst things possible. Try to engage the things that evoke positive change in you. We need to look at art that inspires us and watch movies that make us want to be better people. We need people in our lives who speak truth and encouragement. Neutral goes nowhere, so make sure that what you experience does something to you, drawing you closer and closer to faith, hope and love.

Author: Nathan Key I think its always good to receive times and opprotunites of personal reflection and evaluation toward the direction my life is headed and who and/or what I convey to others---To ask introspective questions of myself and try and seek the reality and truth of who I am ugly, dirty scarred or otherwise. It only brings to light reality versus the fantasy we all like to live in…I myself included. Thank God for forgiveness and his Son. What I put in comes out…hmm…not new…not a profound revolutionary statement. So why do I succumb to the compromised thinking, “aw its no big deal, I’ve been good…been strong”? Its our pride that tells us that. I don’t need to lean on my Savior, I’m solid. That for me often seems to be the first step to the settling to not paying attention to what I put in. Before long, if not in a few hours, days, months or years, if it continues, the ugly I put in will spew forth raring its ugly head and I’ll find myself in a bad spot, asking for forgiveness or caloused and hardened by the seeping of dirt I’ve allowed. There is a great verse in Song of Solomon that says, “Catch for us the foxes, the foxes that ruin the vineyard”. Watch the little things as they can destroy the “vineyard” or you before you know it. I think it parallels the idea of what you put in comes out. If you don’t care or watch what you put in then grab your helmets because whats coming out is gonna be a beast sooner or later. Be on your guard. Not only do our words reflect our heart but our King who many may not ever meet(aside from your witness) but possibly hear…hear in our words…hopefully words of grace, truth and love. Phil 4:8 “Finally brothers(and sisters) whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy think about such things.” Until Dukey Drops Again....Much Love.....